Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Complex beyond imagination!


Do we really know the people with whom we have spent a significant part of our lives ?Is it possible to understand a human being....however close we may be? Why is there something that always comes as a surprise? Why are so many questions left with no answer at all? Is this complex phenomenon called humanity, a tale with innumerable plots, one unfolding after another.....Confused??So am I!
It's difficult to understand people, even those whom we claim to know well. Our mind works in different ways and we never get to know which new turn it decides to take at any point of time in life...things happen and we are left zapped, struggling to find a reason that triggered them off....A person we've known for long becomes a stranger in a jiffy...someone whose thought process is alien to us! It happens with everyone, even if we claim to be simple....the very simplicity shows so many colours that we surprise our selves and are taken aback!
Yes, we humans consist of a complex mechanism....more complex than we can can ever imagine it to be....
The simplest of all can turn into rocket science and the complex ones can be as simple as ABC.
Be Prepared to be surprised where fellow humans are concerned, even if its our own self.....you never know when life takes, hopefully,a pleasant turn ;)













You are a mystery to me ....
you and the self within.
Days passed and life kept surprising...
Until I realised one day, that it's all in the mind...
It's a complex machinery we fail to understand!

16 comments:

KParthasarathi said...

Agreed that all humans are complex and incomprehensible.Even we are alien to our own thinking process and get surprised at the way ourmind rationalises its thinking.

Jayant Post said...

that's a typical human nature... at one time, they look very close and the other time they become strangers... human beings are the most complex creatures... nice post revealing human psychologies...

Samvedna said...

This is really true..I have accepted defeat:) as so many times my version proved wrong..Human beings are the most complex people.

Margaret Cloud said...

Another great post and yes the ones we spend a great deal of time with, still have issues we do not understand. I have been married almost 51 years and I find things about him I do not understand, but accept. Thanks for another great post and thank you for coming by.

Zayida said...

its not hard to understand people basically..although u have to have an instict!...but it is difficult to understand their thoughts sometimes unless people say out everything they think!

the thing u cant judge a person soon...human beings can show aaal kind of nature outwards!!!!

Joseph Pulikotil said...

Hi Sana:)

There is a lot of meaning in this post and also a warning to all of us who take people for granted.

Even with people with whom we are very close for years and years, we have to be careful. When we throw caution to the winds,thinking that we know a person very well, all problems start. When dealing with people even the closest, diplomacy and tact is of paramount importance. We know or read about so many people irrevokably separate after long years of association.

You have provided a wonderful food for thought for all of us to ponder and apply in our real life.

Have a nice day Sana:)
Joseph

A New Beginning said...

Yes Gp, that's very true, we are a big surprise for ourselves as well..humans, a god made complex machinery beyond our imagination:)

Hey Jayant, thats true..the most complex yet a class apart :)

Hi Samvedna! ha ha don't accept defeat, relationships are all about new discoveries ;)

Thats so cute Margaret but you know thats what life is all about, accepting, forgiving and rejoicing :)isn't it!

Yup Zayida, even instinct fails at times but sometimes its spookily true ;)

Hey Mr. Joseph!! Yup being careful is the word...its surprising like for instance sometimes ppl ask for opinion and want you to say what they think is true :)

Neha said...

Yeah you are so right about the human complexity! But sometimes its just destiny which sets us apart...

:)

Aditi said...

A good line of thought!
This complexity has indeed puzzled every human once in life. Probably with the understanding that simplicity and complexity exist simultaneously, it makes us more receptive towards the varying human actions, be it a self action :)

Mohammed Musthafa said...

Hey,
Sorry for not dropping by regularly now...will do as soon as my exams are done.

Would like to know your opinion about a story I'm writing. Its posted on Facebook as a Note.

Here's the link...
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?v=app_2347471856&ref=profile&id=660038190#!/note.php?note_id=367359279352&comments

R. Ramesh said...

beautiful post this friend...n friend, thanks for yr kind words ya...do stay connected..

A New Beginning said...

Hey Neha! Yes destiny has an important role to play :) Thanks for visiting!!hope to see you again!

True Aditi!Thanks for the visit and hope to see you again :)

Hi Musthafa..yeh long time..hope your exams went well..will check the link for sure :)

Hi Ramesh, thanks for the visit!

Ellen said...

Hi Sana! You are at your usual best again with this new post. Love it every time you do that. :-) Blessings to you, my friend.

Princess said...

i just wrote and thought about the same complexity of human relations..

how kool la!

much luv as always dear sana

Rhapsody B. said...

Blessings.....

Yes and NO--The knowing has its limits for as human beings we are always evolving and shifts and transformations that occur and informs who we become and influence how we see the world and interpret those we meet along the way. The point is when we invest in coupledom (my own word) then we have to commit to taking each other on the journey so that we evolve together.

great entry.
stay blessed and enjoy the rest of your week.

Insignia said...

Thats how a human being is, so complex that each time one throws up surprises. And we learn and evolve. :-)